20 Things Every Nigerian Guy Hates In A Relationship

Love comes in many forms, and navigating the complexities of relationships can be a challenge. Ladies, as you know what you want and do not want in a relationship, you should also know what your man wants and do not want in a relationship.

Nigerian men, like anyone else, have their own preferences and dealbreakers when it comes to love.

For you not to eat unnecessary breakfast even though everyone must eat breakfast, you must take note of the things your guy might find frustrating or incompatible in a relationship. 

Well, life no balance, so it's crucial to remember these are not universal truths. Every relationship is unique, and open communication is key to a happy and fulfilling partnership. 

These ten tips will guard you and open your eyes to some things that can break or maim your relationship:

1. Disrespect: 

All men want to be respected by their partners. This includes being treated kindly and having their opinions considered. Even when you don't agree with them, you don't have to make it known in a rude manner.

2. Constant nagging

No one likes to be nagged at all the time. If you have an issue with your man, it's best to communicate it calmly and directly.

It is good to complain cutely, but it is not good to complain too much. You constantly complaining about your friend, work, past relationship and some other unnecessary things that can piss him off and make him serve you breakfast.  

3. Lack of communication:

Communication is key in any relationship. If you're not talking to each other, it's going to be hard to stay connected. From the outside, your man might seem like someone who doesn't fancy deep conversations, he actually does. But maybe not the one you start with: "baby, we need to talk"

4. A gold digger:

Guys prefer a partner who values them for who they are, not what they can provide financially. Every man eye don open now oh. 

5. Excessive jealousy:

A little jealousy is normal, but if it's constant and controlling, it can be suffocating.

6. Being clingy: 

It's important to give your partner some space. If you're with them all the time, they may start to feel smothered.

7. Putting them down in public: 

No one likes to be embarrassed in front of others. If you have a problem with your partner, deal with it in private.

8. Not being supportive of their goals:

Everyone wants to feel supported by their partner. If you're not cheering your guy on, he may eventually start to resent you.

9. Taking them for granted:

Don't forget to show your appreciation for your partner. Tell them you love them, do nice things for them, and make them feel special.

10. Spending too much time on your phone

Instagram babe, have you forgotten that as you give your phone too much attention, your zaddy also needs the same amount of attention and care?

Babe, must you spend too much time on your phone, ignoring your man and depriving him of absolute attention. More so, it is very disrespectful to be on your phone whenever you two are together. Do that when he is not with you!

11. Always bringing up past mistakes: 

Everyone makes mistakes. If you can't forgive your partner for something they did in the past, it's going to be hard to move forward. 

12. Hiding your emotions

 You, why should you hide your feelings from him? In a relationship, babe you have to be transparent. Let him be able to see through you, do not be emotionally distant. You hiding your real feeling can outrightly turn your man off. Let him know your feelings and fix things up rather than keep to yourself.

13. Being overly dependent

Guys do not like when a lady is over-dependent on them. You as a lady must be able to think and arrive at your own decision, try out new things and let him know that his babe is capable.

14. Not being dogged

My lady, be strong-willed and do not just take anything he throws at you. Know want you want and go for it. Guys do not like pushovers.

15. Being in touch with you ex

Guys hate competition and they tend to get jealous when you are still in touch with your ex. Why not forget your ex and put him in your past? Why bring the old to the new? Cut all ties with your ex and give your heart fully to your present man.

16. Being too needy

Good guys love to spoil their girl with gifts and money, but they hate when their babe is so needy and materialistic. Don’t solely depend on him for money; you can also take him out shopping and spoil him with love. He is your lover and not your ATM.

17. Being bossy

No matter how you crave to be in control or to have the upper hand, don’t try to be bossy around your guy. A guy loves to be in control and hates to be told what to do. He is not your puppy, but your man. So, be guided!

18. Comparing your Relationship with other relationships

Guys do not like to hear a woman comparing their relationship with other people’s relationships. Here are some comparisons that infuriate guys.

Bola and her man always go on a trip on weekends, why don’t we go. All my friend’s boyfriends have a private jet, why don’t you get yours?

19. Not keeping it sexy

This does not refer to wearing sexy lingerie in the bedroom or having sex. My point is to do things that are sexy. Sexy things like cooking together, washing together, playing cards together, losing your hair, him plaiting your hair and checking out your outfit.

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